"Don't hate the player, hate the game"

I saw a customer with that shirt today and read it out loud, laughed and said, "Dude the game sucks! I hate the game...I'm no good at it."
Lol
Now I'm realizing that I'm probably stuck playing it even tho I don't want to.
Seriously why can't its be as simple as, I fucking like you and want to be with you. WHY???!!!